“Love is both magic and choice”

Here’s another entry about love- don’t blame me for being a hopeless romantic, I was born in the month of love and passion.

While watching a tv show 3 or 4 days ago, one of the guests quoted that love is both magic and choice, then I told peachy that I thought of another blog entry.So here it is.

I think this is also a good definition of love – its not all about the spark, the magic, love at first sight or the like. Its also about making a choice, a decision, a conviction. And we often don’t realize how this two things would compliment each other. But it really does makes sense, its just a matter of own judgment and will. Which of the two would be considered more? the magic that you see and feel or the choice that you have to make.I think most of us are considering the magic, then making a choice. Do you get what I mean? For example you are attracted to 3 different ladies, you’re dating the three of them, but only one of them or in some cases no one got the magic that you are looking for, the spark that you want to see. So here comes the choice, you choose the one where you felt there is magic and befriend with the rest.

But there also some cases that we have to make a choice first, then we’ll wait for that magic to be developed. On these situations we’re talking more of practicality, considerations and could also be morality.

Magic and choice? or choice and magic? Actually its always both magic and choice, from whatever angle we see it, from whatever perspective we think of it and whatever objective we have. It does really come as a pair. But I think choice would always prevail coz in the long run, the magic would be gone, but the choice would always be there, this is the mere reasons for break ups, annulments and broken families. We always have options in life, we always have a choice but we cannot force the magic to come alive. As the song says, if the feeling is gone……

If the feeling is gone
please don’t pretend that you still love me
I can see it in your eyes
and it hurts to admit it
I can tell that the feeling is gone

All i ask is just a little honesty
Though i know that you’re not coming back to me
You know i’ll do anything to make you stay
But i just have to let you know
If the feeling is gone

There’s a sadness in your smile
Though I try to conceal it
I can tell that the feeling is gone

All i ask is just a little honesty
Though i know that you’re not coming back to me
You know i’ll do anything to make you stay
But i just have to let you go
If the feeling is gone

All i ask is just a little honesty
Though i know that you’re not coming back to me
You know i’ll do anything to make you stay
But i just have to let you go
I just have to let you go
I just have to let you go
If the feeling is gone….

~ by drew25 on June 4, 2008.